By Andrea
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Mia wrote:
Andrea wrote:
Mia wrote:
Andrea wrote:mmkay, apparently this is confusing people so I will spell it out.

I will be nice to you. I will have great conversations with you. I will mean everything about those great conversations! I want to know about your life and hear about your boyfriends and your families and school because I like getting to know people and making friends.

And then I will vote your ass out, because THIS IS STRANDED.


You can't have both. Especially when you're voting people out just because they hurt your feelings.


I'm not. I voted out Liliana who I fucking adore. I like the person I voted for tonight. If you're referring to the Vytas vote, that's a big representation of why I voted him out and everyone here knows it.

And can I have both and win? Maybe not. But I can have both, have a good time, and walk out of this game without resentments. When I'm out, I'm all good.


Andrea, what I'm saying is that YOU specifically can't have both. There's just something about who you are that prevents you that luxury. If you had tried to embrace that and sucked up the hurt feelings, you'd be in a winning position right now. But you turned the game over to everyone else just because Cass comforted you when you got insulted once.


"Got insulted." It just happened, right? No one did it?

It amazes me how many votes you've been completely blindsided and yet you STILL think you know exactly what's going on. I admire that confidence, truly.
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By Mia
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Andrea wrote:
Joaquin Souberbielle wrote:
Andrea wrote:mmkay, apparently this is confusing people so I will spell it out.

I will be nice to you. I will have great conversations with you. I will mean everything about those great conversations! I want to know about your life and hear about your boyfriends and your families and school because I like getting to know people and making friends.

And then I will vote your ass out, because THIS IS STRANDED.


When have you done that? What's an example?

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I mean, Socotra's full of examples, that one's easy. I cried when I voted Nick out.

Here? I got along great with both Vytas and Lil. I talked to them both constantly. I get along great with the person I voted for tonight. Didn't talk to Katie a whole lot but we got along great when we did.

I tend to align with the people I get along best with, sure, but that doesn't mean I DON'T get along with the people I'm not aligned with and then have to vote out. I mean what would people prefer, that I just don't have conversations with people I'm not planning to take to the F3?


This is what I'm talking about. Miss me with that "I cried when I voted ___ out" shit. Nobody wants that. You clearly didn't get along with Vytas because you were just telling me how much you couldn't physically stand or stomach what he was saying to you. You "adoring" Tiger Lily is doing nobody any favors. It makes it worse.

Stop trying to be liked. Because you were already liked, and trying to keep that in tact is just making you look desperate.
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Sarah wrote:
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Sarah wrote:I'm just going to say that as someone who has hosted, and as someone who has been on the jury and will probably be on this jury, I want EVERYONE to be fighting to win and some people don't seem to care if they win. I want to see the final 8 fighting to WIN. Playing for themselves, not for an old guy.

It's hard to hear this from you when you yourself admittedly said you missed a week's worth of game. I think that week's worth of low activity is why you're in the position you're in now. Seems like you're playing catch up. Keep fighting. Just an observation. But I can tell you one thing: I'm fighting to win this game.

When did I say I missed a weeks worth of game? A WEEKEND maybe. And I know you are, you're one of the few who are. You've just got other people also fighting for you to win.

Sorry if you didn't say that and I'm mis-remembering. I don't think anyone else is fighting for me specifically to win. I think that's an inaccurate statement.
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#8866
Mia wrote:
Andrea wrote:
Joaquin Souberbielle wrote:
Andrea wrote:mmkay, apparently this is confusing people so I will spell it out.

I will be nice to you. I will have great conversations with you. I will mean everything about those great conversations! I want to know about your life and hear about your boyfriends and your families and school because I like getting to know people and making friends.

And then I will vote your ass out, because THIS IS STRANDED.


When have you done that? What's an example?

Defend yourself in this kangaroo court!!11!!11!


I mean, Socotra's full of examples, that one's easy. I cried when I voted Nick out.

Here? I got along great with both Vytas and Lil. I talked to them both constantly. I get along great with the person I voted for tonight. Didn't talk to Katie a whole lot but we got along great when we did.

I tend to align with the people I get along best with, sure, but that doesn't mean I DON'T get along with the people I'm not aligned with and then have to vote out. I mean what would people prefer, that I just don't have conversations with people I'm not planning to take to the F3?


This is what I'm talking about. Miss me with that "I cried when I voted ___ out" shit. Nobody wants that. You clearly didn't get along with Vytas because you were just telling me how much you couldn't physically stand or stomach what he was saying to you. You "adoring" Tiger Lily is doing nobody any favors. It makes it worse.

Stop trying to be liked. Because you were already liked, and trying to keep that in tact is just making you look desperate.

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#8867 my best friends here were voted out by other people and I didn't even cry when they left. I was super bummed but I didn't cry.
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By Mia
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Andrea wrote:
Mia wrote:
Andrea wrote:
Mia wrote:
Andrea wrote:mmkay, apparently this is confusing people so I will spell it out.

I will be nice to you. I will have great conversations with you. I will mean everything about those great conversations! I want to know about your life and hear about your boyfriends and your families and school because I like getting to know people and making friends.

And then I will vote your ass out, because THIS IS STRANDED.


You can't have both. Especially when you're voting people out just because they hurt your feelings.


I'm not. I voted out Liliana who I fucking adore. I like the person I voted for tonight. If you're referring to the Vytas vote, that's a big representation of why I voted him out and everyone here knows it.

And can I have both and win? Maybe not. But I can have both, have a good time, and walk out of this game without resentments. When I'm out, I'm all good.


Andrea, what I'm saying is that YOU specifically can't have both. There's just something about who you are that prevents you that luxury. If you had tried to embrace that and sucked up the hurt feelings, you'd be in a winning position right now. But you turned the game over to everyone else just because Cass comforted you when you got insulted once.


"Got insulted." It just happened, right? No one did it?

It amazes me how many votes you've been completely blindsided and yet you STILL think you know exactly what's going on. I admire that confidence, truly.


I barely know shit. I kno you're not winning, and that you're about to get absolutely lambasted if you don't change something in how you're playing this. And quickly.
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By Andrea
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Sarah wrote:my best friends here were voted out by other people and I didn't even cry when they left. I was super bummed but I didn't cry.

I cry a lot, it's not really special
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By Mia
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Sarah wrote:my best friends here were voted out by other people and I didn't even cry when they left. I was super bummed but I didn't cry.


I don't think she cried either. I know she seems to like saying that, though.
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By Sarah
#8873
Rudy wrote:
Sarah wrote:
Rudy wrote:
Sarah wrote:I'm just going to say that as someone who has hosted, and as someone who has been on the jury and will probably be on this jury, I want EVERYONE to be fighting to win and some people don't seem to care if they win. I want to see the final 8 fighting to WIN. Playing for themselves, not for an old guy.

It's hard to hear this from you when you yourself admittedly said you missed a week's worth of game. I think that week's worth of low activity is why you're in the position you're in now. Seems like you're playing catch up. Keep fighting. Just an observation. But I can tell you one thing: I'm fighting to win this game.

When did I say I missed a weeks worth of game? A WEEKEND maybe. And I know you are, you're one of the few who are. You've just got other people also fighting for you to win.

Sorry if you didn't say that and I'm mis-remembering. I don't think anyone else is fighting for me specifically to win. I think that's an inaccurate statement.

Perception is reality.
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By Andrea
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Mia wrote:
Sarah wrote:my best friends here were voted out by other people and I didn't even cry when they left. I was super bummed but I didn't cry.


I don't think she cried either. I know she seems to like saying that, though.

when else have I said that?
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Andrea wrote:I'm not desperate, girl. I've got immunity.


You're desperate to be liked by everyone here. And you were.
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Mia

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By Andrea
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Mia wrote:
Andrea wrote:I'm not desperate, girl. I've got immunity.


You're desperate to be liked by everyone here. And you were.

yes, and I could have continued that way forever if this wasn't a game where you have to vote people out. If I had voted out other people instead, other people would be feeling the way you're feeling.

seriously, lay out a way for me I could have played this without hurting the feelings of anyone here I've grown close to. I'd love to hear it.
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